Ok, so there’s this guy I’ve been dating for a year. I even had an abortion for him, lol. It’s a long-distance relationship, though, and I’ve caught him cheating, but he always blames it on me—that I’m cheating also, which isn’t true, but he just wants to believe that. To cut the long story short, we broke up for like a month, and then he came back begging for another chance, saying he’s going to change and all. He asked that I come see him, and I decided to go so maybe we can work things out. When I got there, I wasn’t feeling the vibe, but he was kissing me and all that, saying he misses us. But then I noticed he was on his phone, and when I took a glimpse, I saw he was texting a girl, which I know is his girlfriend, but he denied dating her, stating he’s just flirting with her and all. I told him I didn’t care because my reason for seeing him was because I haven’t had sex for a long time, and I haven’t been sexually attracted to anyone yet. When I got back home, we talked about us and everything, then one thing led to another and he blocked me, which he has always been doing when we were still in love.
He wasn’t aware I had his girlfriend’s picture, and I pranked him. That was how the girlfriend texted me, and I didn’t know she was the one. That was how I ended up spilling everything and saying he’s shameless for denying his babe and saying he wanted a second chance. He unblocked me and started insulting me, and I apologized because I didn’t mean to text her. Funny enough, this thing has happened before, and he left the girl and came to me after I paid for a therapist to be able to move on. And now again, he’s doing the same. I’m like, bro, why can’t you be loyal? I know he’s going to come back, but I just wish I have the heart to tell him to go away because now I’ve resorted to FWB. I get paid N150k, and I think it’s best for me. But what should I do if he comes back?
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