My boyfriend isn’t attracted to me anymore. Firstly, the sex has drastically reduced, which I know is inevitable considering the time we’ve been together (7 months), but I didn’t expect this much. Before, whenever I go to his house to stay, we usually have sex like three to four times a day if he’s around, but now, in the space of three days I was there, we had sex just once and it’s the weekend, so he was around. That aside, he now acts like having sex with me is a big deal for him and even when I make advances, he pushes me away. It’s only when he feels like he wants to, and if I try to resist based on I want to pay back, he doesn’t stop and just continue forcefully. No foreplay, he’ll just use lubricants or stick his fingers in my kitty and if he notices any small wetness, he’ll just slide in. We don’t use condoms, but he has lots of condoms at home and I’ve noticed that anytime I come and count the condoms, they’ll reduce, meaning he uses them but definitely not on me.
It breaks my heart fr and it’s affecting because I’m a pretty and sexy girl any guy would want to have, but the one I want acts like he isn’t attracted to me and I find myself losing my spark. I don’t feel beautiful anymore, I even hardly take pics or make videos of myself anymore, which is unlike me. I’m sincerely concerned because he’s always sounding like he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but I don’t think I can live like this, being with a man that acts like he doesn’t find me attractive or is tired of me. Should I talk to him about it or should I just lock up and take the hit that he’s probably tired of me?
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