Good day everyone, I’ve been holding back this story for days now because I feel I know what y’all are going to say, but let me still share and get y’all’s opinion. So I’ve been in a relationship with my man for two years now. In the first year of the relationship, he cheated, but I forgave him, although I was kind of using it against him because it pained me whenever I remembered. Now, my man is one of those nonchalant guys, although deep down, he really cares. Here’s where I need advice: my guy’s mood changes (today he’s cool and all, the next day he’s giving attitude for no reason). We’ve had a lot of ups and downs, I won’t lie. There’s a guy I met last year; character-wise, he’s great, but he talks a lot, always teaching me one thing or another (not like I don’t know it o); he just likes expanding on things, which makes the talk too long. This guy doesn’t give unless you ask, and even when you ask, he doesn’t give the amount you requested.
I have only ever asked him for N15k and he sent N10k. On the other hand, he is a giver. I don’t need to ask before he does anything. Recently, I met another guy who has been disturbing me to be his girlfriend—in short, his wife. He said he doesn’t want anyone else to take me away, so he wants to come and do everything necessary so we can be together forever. This is where I’m confused. My guy is a giver, although he’s very annoying at times. The second guy seems like a waste of time. Then there’s this other guy who is very serious, and I don’t know what to do. I just summarized everything, but this story is way more complicated. Forgot to mention, I’m 22 years old and a graduate. I need your advice, please.
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