Here’s the thing: I have two boyfriends. Please don’t judge me, I just need advice so I can know what to do. Let’s call them Mr A and Mr B. I’ve been dating Mr A for over two years and he has been good to me. He’s naturally a nice person but doesn’t have any plans for the future. He likes to give a lot. If someone asks him for money and he doesn’t have, he’s not always happy, and he’ll make sure to promise the person and fulfill it. He believes that money can do anything. He’s not even a fan of anything like gadgets, cars, or maybe gold. Mind you, he’s a yahoo guy who just likes to spend money. He doesn’t party too, and he’s really serious about me because he’s always talking about marriage. My problem here is that he doesn’t believe in any other work; he just wants to do the yahoo thing for life. I’ve talked to him about it, but he doesn’t want to do anything else. Another thing is that he’s not good in bed at all. He has gotten several herbs, but it’s still the same thing, and he doesn’t want to go to the hospital.
Now Mr B—we’ve been together for over a year. He’s a nice guy too but doesn’t really open up to me, but the few things he has shared with me, I can say he’s planning a lot and I’ve seen some too. But the problem I have with him is that he doesn’t take accountability for anything. Whenever I complain about something to him, he’ll blame me for those things. We usually have issues over small things. He’s not as caring as I want. Mr A isn’t too, but whenever I complain, he’ll apologize and adjust. (Both Mr A and B didn’t attend any high school, just secondary.) I’m a graduate. Mind you, Mr A doesn’t go out because he’s scared of police and all due to his work. Mr B is also into the same thing but bold enough to go to places and also planning to do some other business. In your own opinion, who would you advise me to go for? Please don’t judge me.
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