So a friend of mine who is married and I have been dating since this year—we were friends about 4 years ago before we lost contact and reconnected this year. I found out he was married, but we are currently dating. You are free to judge ooo, who knows, maybe his wife slept with married men, that’s why I’m sleeping with him—na una sabi. Even two girls here that I know are dating married men are always in this rant’s comment abu$ing girls who date married men—hypocrites. Back to my question: So this guy takes care of his home and me as well. He has helped me a lot in my personal life—gifts, outings. Now the question is: Last time, he changed my phone to iPhone 13 Pro Max, sent me money for my TV all this year. He was talking about getting me a new generator or solar, but his budget is about N300k. Me, I was thinking, before he starts feeling like someone that furnished my house, should I just tell him to give me the money so I add it to my business? I sell hairs for girls, but those affordable ones (blend). Profit is about N10k per hair, and I sell like 30 a month.
Should I collect the N300k and add to the business? It’ll go a long way to help me do Instagram adverts and also get some goods. Or should I just allow him to buy the generator? I know it’s for his comfort, so whenever he comes to the house, if there is no light, he’ll be comfortable. I don’t want him to feel, because he got me these things now, he owns the house, because he is a jealous type. I don’t have a boyfriend, so it’s not like I’m cheating, and once I meet a guy I like, I’d let him know. We have discussed it. I’d be 30 this year, and he is currently building his own house here in Lagos, so he also has his own plan. In 2 years, this generator would have spoilt, but the business would have grown bigger. Please, if you don’t have advice for the question I asked, just move on. I know online all girls are saints who don’t have s€x or whatever. Please give me advice: Should I collect money for my business or allow him buy the generator? Give good reasons (just ignore the married man part) if you can. Thanks.
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