I’m 20, and there’s this boy I’ve been dating for a while now. I’ve known him for about 8 months and we’ve been dating for 2 months. Before we started dating, I told him I didn’t want a relationship because I know most people base it on sx, and I don’t want to have sx. He said he understands and he actually loves me and sx isn’t his problem. He had been asking me to be his girlfriend since the first month we met, but I kept turning him down because of this particular reason. Fast forward to today, I went to see him because he’d been asking me for a while, even though I didn’t want to go. We were just talking and then cuddling. I reminded him that I didn’t want to sleep with him and he said it was okay. He tried to do it before, and I forgave him after he apologized, but today he ignored everything I said. When I refused, he kept begging and eventually forced himself on me. I cried and begged him to stop, but he didn’t. Afterward, he left, apologized, and begged for forgiveness, but none of that changes what happened.
The last time he tried to force himself on me, he cried and knelt down and begged that it’ll never happen again and I forgave him. Before you say I forgave him because of his money, this boy has never given me money before. I just really love him. I’m just hurt and don’t know what to do. Imagine losing your virginity in such a way and to someone who’s supposed to protect you. I’m so confused. I know that to some people it’s normal to have sex in a relationship (love that for you!) but it’s not something I wanted to do now. The worst part is he keeps calling and begging me. I’ve blocked him, but he keeps texting me with different numbers saying I shouldn’t leave him, I shouldn’t hurt him like this. How selfish can men be? I know it’s my fault for going to his house, but how could I have known?
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