Hey rantandtalkz fam, I’m a 20-year-old lady/girl. I just concluded my ND program this last year September. My stepdad sponsored it (I mean every penny was from him). We aren’t rich, but thank God we don’t beg before we eat. I’ve been having issues with my mom since I finished my ND. She always wants me to do everything at home like cleaning, washing, cooking—every chore you can imagine. I always try my best to meet up with her demands, but it’s overwhelming. I have two younger brothers, so I always suggest they do the washing while I cook and clean up the house. Sometimes I wash also, but my mom doesn’t support it. She asked me to wash her clothes also, but I can’t because of her size.
Whenever I don’t wash plates or something, she’s always saying “sho mo pe oti se oun tenikan o se ri” (you’ve accomplished what anyone has ever accomplished) because of my ND degree. I always feel down whenever she says this. She’ll even go as far as saying my brothers are watching everything I’m doing and that I will reap what I sow in the future. Sometimes things that make me shiver because of the future. I’m so close to my stepdad who is more supportive than she is, also because the man is old. Please I need advice on what to start doing so I won’t be at home lavishing time, and I want to maintain my mental health. Please be kind with your comments, thank you.
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