I have been dating my girl for about six months, but she’s nonchalant. She feels too relaxed about a lot of things. Some other times, I have to be hard on her to take things seriously. I’ve talked to her about it, but she keeps saying she doesn’t like to talk too much. You don’t like to talk too much, but you’re not smart. She can’t even make decisions herself; I have to tell her how to go about almost everything. She’s not acting like a girlfriend to me. She feels too relaxed. Our sexual life is very low—two months may pass, and I may not touch her because she’ll keep removing my hands. A normal boyfriend and girlfriend are clingy; she finds it too much. We can be in the same space for a week, and if I don’t initiate conversation, we’ll only greet throughout the whole week. Her communication is very low. I’ve talked to her about everything, but she keeps saying she doesn’t like sharing things with people. I’m not people—I’m your fucking boyfriend. Moreover, she likes TikTok too much, and I don’t like it. I feel like her problem in life is just food.
I have a business; she can’t come and assist unless I mention it. The only time we have proper conversations is when we’re arguing about her lack of communication. I feel her knowledge is low too. And I really do love this babe, but all this is giving me another rethink.
I’m 26, by the way, and I feel like settling down soon, but she’s not ready. I don’t see her to be ready, and I don’t like that,I can’t wait for long. I want to start building my own family and legacy. I don’t know what else to do. She doesn’t bill me. She’s contented in her own little way. Also, her way of showing appreciation—I don’t like it enough. I like when people appreciate well enough. And every time I want to lecture her about these basic things, it tends to feel like I’m talking too much. Life is not a movie; we keep learning. I own my business (a restaurant), and I deal with people on a daily basis, and I tend to understand relationships. I want more from her—communication and more in all.
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