I’m 27. After God saved me from my past relationship of 6 years, where I had a lot of ups and downs like cheating, insults, and so on last year, there is this guy that has been asking me out for 2 years. Then I told him I’m in a relationship and we stopped talking after I refused to meet up with him and accept to date him. Later last year, he came back still asking me out and I asked him about his relationship. He said his relationship is not working and is also 6 years; that he doesn’t want it, that he wants to be with me. I and my ex are no longer together. I told him to give me some time to think about it and I later agreed to date him after much begging and him sending his friend to also talk to me. We were a little far from each other before and I couldn’t visit him always, so he had to relocate to Warri. We were cool, and our relationship is going to be 5 months this January. He also introduced me to his family and a few of his friends and everything was going fine till this year January when I found out he is still talking to his ex, telling her he still loves her and can’t forget about their first moment.
He was also talking to different girls asking them to meet up. So for some days I didn’t call or text him, but when he called, I picked and replied to his messages. He asked me what was wrong. I told him about what I saw. He was angry with me for checking his phone and didn’t want to apologize, saying I shouldn’t have checked his phone and that it was just for fun. He didn’t want to apologize. I still didn’t talk to him or call him. Then he said I don’t love him and I don’t care about him, that I just want to give up on our relationship just like that. I told him why is it so hard for him to apologize. After much talk, he apologized and I also apologized for checking his phone. This happened last two weeks. Today, he said he wants to talk to me, that he is confused about his ex and me, including himself, and that he can’t concentrate. Meaning he still wants her and still loves her. I told him he should be with her because he has ki||ed my trust for him since I saw the text with his ex. I’m just confused. We never had issues or any misunderstandings. I asked him if something was wrong and he said no, so I don’t really understand.
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