There is this lady that we have been dating for over 2 years now. We had some issues in October last year that caused a lot, even though she was at fault. Because I loved her so much and always wanted her, I went to beg her to make things work out. But she said she was no more interested, that she already fell out of love with me, and that I should move on with my life. She has even told all of her friends that she doesn’t want me anymore. I keep begging this lady every day, but she keeps saying she doesn’t want to have anything to do with me again. I decided to take the bold step on the 20th of December to move on with my life because I was already going crazy about the lady. I couldn’t concentrate at work, or eat, and most times I cried myself to sleep. But for the past 2 weeks now, she has been texting me, calling, and doing all sorts of things, telling me she wants us to be back together.
But I don’t know how to tell her I already fell out of love with her. I moved on with my life, at least to just focus on my future, and when it’s time for a relationship, I will look for someone special. Please, is there a way I can fall in love with her again, or should I just let her know we can’t work things out anymore? I don’t want to be deceiving or play with her emotions. Note: I begged for over 2 months and even always told most of her friends that I’m begging her and she can’t come back to me. So sorry for all the typos in this message. Please, what can I do, Rantandtalkz family? Save a lover boy and a caring guy that’s financially okay on his own. I just want to love and to be loved back in return.
It’s best u tell her the truth that it can’t work out anymore
The thing about women is they love attention, and she was getting that from you, the moment you decide to move on and better yourself YOU become the prize. Bro don’t take her back she probably cheated on you as well just focus on yourself physically (gym) and mentally (financially, mentality) and watch yourself attract butterflies.