Hi, Rantandtalkz family. I’m a 23-year-old girl, and I have a small business that I’m managing while looking up to God to expand it. I am pregnant for my boyfriend, and he’s ready to take responsibility. In fact, we’re already planning the traditional wedding. The initial plan before the pregnancy was for him to get me a shop this in January or February, then whatever comes after. But now, I feel like I’m putting so much pressure on him because he has to move from his old apartment to a new one, plan my proposal, my shop, his car, and the wedding. I don’t know. I honestly don’t want to abort this child, but I feel like I’m not done with school yet. Though I’m in my finals, about to write my project and IT with some outstanding courses, I still want to go out more with him.
I just need advice. What do you guys think I should do? I haven’t told any of my family yet, even though my mom and siblings will be happy because they know him. I just feel like the pressure of settling down and putting everything together from is too fast. I don’t want my tummy to be big before then because I think I’m just a few weeks gone. Any advice on what I can do? I’m a bit stressed about this, and at the same time, I’m happy about the whole thing. I just want to at least be comfortable, have my shop, and finish school before anything. But now that a baby is involved, and my man says we should go ahead, what do you guys think I should do? Thank you.
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