Can being broke make someone you’re supposedly in a 2-month-old relationship with not call you? Because this brother sent a voice note that he’s been so broke and didn’t want me to go through that situation with him, yada yada yada, and he hasn’t called me for some days now. The last time we texted, it was about me asking for the funds he promised and him telling me he’d still not been paid. Please don’t judge me. I’m an overthinker and carefully scrutinizing the situation made me believe I’m being f00led here. I want to allow myself to believe this man so much, but I’ve been so influenced by social media advisers and past experiences, so much so that I have convinced myself that he’s cheating.
Before now, he’d never indicated interest in knowing me on a deeper level, and anytime I bring up the topic of stuff that bothers me about the relationship (or should I call it a situationship), he’d tell me he knows and he’ll fix all his lapses, but I’m becoming really bothered because, as the lover girl that I am, I’m scared I’ll keep making the same mistakes and excuses for his bad behaviour. The men, do you guys act like this when you don’t have money? Am I being used? For once, I just want to feel safe and loved as much as I love without doubts. I’m tired of crying because of the conclusions I get from my overthinking sessions.
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