I have a girlfriend we’ve been dating for a year and few months now. At first, I never knew the type of woman she was when we started dating because she was just 18 years old then. She keeps saying she was shy and all, last year when we started dating, which makes me feel like she was really into me because I think when a girl is shy around you, she’s really in love with me. Fast forward to this year, we had issues, and the main issue is about her disrespecting me, saying some hurtful and insulting words to me. She knew I’m an overthinker; I take things too personal. I have been complaining about this particular disrespect, but this last time she mentioned that the worst I can do is to leave the relationship—that I can’t do anything to her. Also, this year I found out that last year, when I thought she was shy around me, she was talking to multiple guys; she even told two of them she doesn’t have a bf.
All of these thoughts are on my head. When I confronted her about this, she said I wasn’t acting serious; I was acting nonchalant, which was why she never told those guys she had a boyfriend. She visited one of them and sex-chatted with one of the guys last year. Please family, this disrespect has been something I have been complaining about since the beginning of this year, and there have been no changes. But in our last issue, she stated that the worst I can do is break up with her. Is it enough for me to leave and end the relationship because I think before a girl could make such statements, there’s a new guy in her life? It’s a long-distance relationship; we get to see each other once in a month, like one week in a month.
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