I dated this guy for a year and a half; I saw a lady’s bra in his house and he denied saying it’s for his sis, and she confirmed it. Two days after, he broke up with me ’cause I said some harsh things to him. We have been having issues ’cause he said I don’t respect him ’cause he doesn’t have money. He complains about everything I do, and I try to change. I have anger issues which makes me say rude things and I apologize later. He invited me over and after talking he told me he wants to break up ’cause I am too toxic. We both hugged each other and we cried for minutes. I didn’t believe it and I begged him so much—even knelt down—but he refused. Three days later, I visited him unannounced ’cause we are talking and he hung up on me. I met another girl there, we had issues which led to him being v!0lent. I left and wanted to call the police on him but my friend stopped me. His mum called and begged on his behalf, he later came and apologized.
The thing is, I still love him, I am sure he does too ’cause whenever we talk he cries and always blames me for not respecting him. He has a low self esteem, especially ’cause he doesn’t have much money. I don’t even call him names or use his situation against him, I begged and begged but he won’t forgive. I actually caused the breakup ’cause I am crazy at times and whenever we have issues I always take it overboard and say harsh things to him. He attempted cheating three times and I haven’t cheated on him before, I have been faithful and loyal. It’s almost three weeks now, I met another guy who likes me but I’m scared to move on ’cause I still love my ex, and he doesn’t want to forgive me, what do I do? It’s difficult to move on ’cause we work at the same place, although our dating is secret, we will still be seeing each other and I still love him, is there anything I can do to make him forgive me or what should I do? Pls help, I’m still in love.
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