Hi, I have been dating this guy for the past 6 years. I found out he was a cheat in the first year, but the fear of starting over didn’t make me get rid of him. I caught him with like five different girls. The following year, he chose his bestie over me, even though I complained about it, but he still wouldn’t listen. I got pregnant for him, and we had to abort it. Then I finally left him and moved on with my life, but the relationship I entered felt like going from frying pan to fire. I didn’t last 4 months with the new guy, and then my ex came back begging. I accepted him back because I still really do love him. But after a while, remembering what he has done to me, I feel some kind of h8tred for him. At times, I would just fight him without him even doing anything. So, I broke up with him for my own sanity.
I dated someone else, but the relationship didn’t work, so I decided to stay on my own. That was until mid-last year, when my ex came back. I won’t lie, I still genuinely love this guy, and I gave us a chance again. But since then, this guy has been maltreating me. He keeps cheating and has never stopped. I got pregnant for him again, and I aborted it. Right now, I’m confused because I don’t know why I find it so difficult to break up with him. I have tried countless times, but it’s not working. Even if we fight, the moment he texts me, I run back to him. Right now, please, I need help. I need to stop thinking about him. I don’t want to go into a new year like this. Please.
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