How do you know when a guy likes you? I met this guy on Tinder last year, and we clicked from the first conversation we had. He also commended me on how intelligent I am. Along the line, we stopped talking. Early this year, we started talking again. I was in my 400-level, first semester then. This guy sends me money randomly—₦20k, ₦50k, ₦100k—just like that. Imagine waking up and seeing an unexpected alert with the narration “To ease school stress.” Note that we’ve never met in person nor even done a video call. So far, he has only sent me two pictures of himself. This guy has been so helpful in ways I cannot explain. Imagine doing all this for someone you’ve never met before. On the day I wrote my last paper, omooo, this guy scattered my head—literally! The massive credit alert I got😭. Haaa, people are kind o. So last month, we finally met in person. He is literally the sweetest person! He’s so calm and reserved.
Also, this guy is literally like a ghost on social media—zero posts, and he doesn’t put anything on his WhatsApp status either. I meannnn😍! Like this, I’ve fallen for him. But now, this guy hasn’t said anything about liking me, though his actions say otherwise. I forgot to add that when we met in person, we went out, and he kept holding my hand and kissing it a few times. When we got back to his hotel, I expected him to make a move on me like most guys would do, but he didn’t. He just helped me massage my aching ankle, and I also caught him staring at me a couple of times. A few days ago, he told me that if I wanted to start a business or learn a skill, I should let him know. I’ve never met this type of guy before. Most guys by now would have already asked for knack. I want to know—does he like me? Why hasn’t he said anything yet, or should I just remove my mind?
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