Since July last year, I have constantly had issues with my girlfriend. I have tried in many ways to talk to her, but in the end, she will gaslight me and turn it into another issue. Every time I try to talk to her, she says I complain a lot, and in the end, it always goes the wrong way. To cut it short, lately, she has been really showing me that she has another person. In my mind, I just focus and do the best I can for her. I try to open a conversation with her to know what she really wants, and she said she doesn’t think her mom likes me and that she already has someone else she has been having sex with. Then after three days, she comes back and says she was joking. She confuses me and makes it seem like I take things too personally. I asked her if that’s why she’s disrespecting me and talking to me anyhow.
I told her, “It’s fine, I believe your parents don’t know me yet, and I didn’t hide anything from you when I asked you out. I have supported you in every way I can.” I asked her, “What have I done to deserve this from you?” She replied that she didn’t have anything reasonable to say. She has really taken my love and kindness for granted. This really hurts me. I’m in pain. The problem right now is that I’m trying to avoid her, but I can’t. My heart keeps hurting me. Because I don’t answer her calls, she has blocked me everywhere!!! Pls, what can I do? I’m mentally not okay right now.
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