Temi is a young, beautiful, and hardworking girl who met Emma in 2021. Emma is a guy that flirts a lot with girls, but when he met Temi, he saw that she wasn’t the type of girl he could flirt with. Temi is very focused and not like other girls who are into pr0stitution. Fast forward to when Emma impregnated Temi—they had already started dating. When Temi got pregnant, Emma was so disappointed that he drove her to his siblings because Emma is the lastborn, the breadwinner of his family, and the only boy. When they got there, his siblings convinced Temi to terminate the pregnancy, which she did. Fast forward a few months, Temi got pregnant again, but this time, Emma decided to let her keep it because of the pain she had gone through. During the pregnancy, Temi faced a lot from Emma’s sisters. Emma is the type of guy who carries his family on his head and doesn’t joke with them. Temi was humiliated by his sisters so much. Fast forward to when Temi started realizing Emma was a cheat.
He cheated on her with girls of a lower class, infected her with all kinds of infections, and whenever she reacted and got angry—boom! Emma would beg, and Temi would try to forgive him again. Later, when Temi remembered everything, she would want to confront him, but Emma would get angry and tell her she doesn’t forgive and forget. This kept happening to the point that Temi couldn’t forget all the cheating. Later on, Emma would sometimes beat Temi if she insulted his family or him. Her insults were more like, “Your family has refused to tell you the truth because of the pennies they’re getting from you.” Whenever they had issues, Emma would leave home for days and wouldn’t check up on Temi or their child. Temi is a very hardworking girl with her own business, so she didn’t really care about feeding expenses if Emma didn’t contribute. He mostly cheated whenever Temi left home after they fought. Emma’s mother and father barely called Temi—they would only call Emma. They didn’t check up on her at all.
A few months ago, Emma and Temi had another fight, and Emma started begging her to settle things so she could come back home. Temi accepted because she’s a very cool girl and loves Emma regardless. After they got back together, Temi went to Emma’s sister to pick up her child. The sister scolded her for not showing up at their house on Christmas Day. Temi explained that she had issues with Emma before and that he was the one begging her to come back. Unknown to Temi, Emma’s sister went to tell him what she said. A few days later, Emma’s family friends—two guys—came around. Temi wanted to tell them how Emma had chased her and her child out so they could advise him on how he treated her. That’s when Emma got angry and told her she talked too much. She was so pained and embarrassed that she had to leave the parlor and go to her room. Fast forward to when Temi was in her room—Emma came in, shouted, and cur$ed her for talking about him begging her, saying she was proud of it. Later that night, he apologized, saying he had overreacted.
But Temi wasn’t having it. She said she couldn’t accept his apology because he had disrespected her too much. The next day, Temi started packing her things, thinking Emma would beg her to stay. But instead, he got mad and said, “If you want to leave, pack your things and leave!” She eventually left, but before she did, her dad asked her to go back, which she did. However, Emma refused to let her in, leaving her stranded. She pleaded with him, but Emma said she had packed her things herself, so there was no coming back. Even when Temi found out she was pregnant again, Emma still didn’t consider her. Everyone kept begging him, but he refused to allow her in. At one point, Temi got a new car because Emma would always seize her things whenever they fought. He once locked Temi and her child out, and they had to sleep in the car—that was the fight they had before this last one. The story is very long. In fact, Emma once broke Temi’s jaw during an argument. Temi had caught him cheating—or about to cheat again, as usual.
He wanted to record her while they were having a heated conversation, and Temi tried to stop him. That’s when he punched her, breaking her jaw. She had to lock her teeth for a month and couldn’t eat for over a month, losing almost 8–10 kg. After everything, Temi still celebrated Emma’s birthday because he was so sad about her condition on that day. Sometimes, he wouldn’t eat the food she made because he felt guilty about his actions. This same guy complains about respect from Temi. He knows his family doesn’t like her, but he keeps forcing the relationship. Please, who is actually the problem here? Should Temi have just endured all the cheating?
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