I am 20 years old, and my boyfriend is 30. We have been dating since 2021 when I was 18 years old. But the problem is, he traveled one time like this to Kenya, spent a month there, and came to Nigeria. Then I started to notice something, and I found out he was dating someone when he got there. I think the girl is in her late 20s as well. When I went through his phone, the way he was professing love to her, I was jealous. I asked him about it, and he said he was just with her.
Moreover, he said he’s not getting any younger. This December, she came to Nigeria, and he proposed to her. I asked him what is he still doing with me because I couldn’t stand all that is going on. Though when she was here, he didn’t snub me or anything; he sorted everything I needed for Christmas so I wouldn’t disturb him. But I felt I have lost him already.
I thought if he gave me money, I wouldn’t care about what he is doing with her, but it’s a lie. I almost lost my mind. I told him he should let me go. He said he’s not done being of help to me and that I should calm down for him. He said he’s here for me now that she has gone back. I’m confused. I can’t let go of him. I love him so much, and I’m so pained.
I think it’s because I don’t have money to spoil him, though I’m doing well for myself. Anytime I talk about a breakup, he reminds me that he can’t allow anyone to have me until I’m ready to get married, and then he will let go of me. But I can’t be sharing a man. Should I break up with him or still stay with him?
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