Hello Rantz family, it’s me again. Sometime last year, in September, I ranted about me footing ALL the bills in my relationship (now my ex), including his footwear, clothes, laundry, foodstuffs, provisions, furnishing his apartment with necessary gadgets, and all. Name it, please—GIFTS, in cash and actual items. And this guy never spent a dime on me but always complained about being broke. I wasn’t desperate; I did it all out of love. After all, my efforts weren’t appreciated and with lots of cheating, I broke up with him last November. So I waited, and like people say, “heal.” I waited till this year, August 2024, and I met a guy. We talked for weeks, and he came to visit me in my city. We got to know each other and had s*x because he stayed for two days (he lodged). He traveled back, and after a few days, he borrowed N300k from me (urgent issue) and another N100k. He paid it back after a week, and since then, he borrowed N200k, N400k, and so on until the money accumulated to over a million. I went out of my way to borrow money from a friend and gave it to him.
His reason for borrowing was that he needed to sort some things out. I didn’t know more than that… Now, paying me back has been an issue. The relationship has stopped, he doesn’t call or pick up anymore, and when he does, he shouts at me. I don’t know what to do because I can’t even tell a single soul. All this money is my business money, and now I can’t restock for a while because I’m drained and flat broke. Rantz family, please, I don’t know what to do because if I dare speak out, people will say I’m desperate and that’s why I’m doing all this for men. Before you all insult me, no man—I mean, no man—has ever done anything for me, so I am not reaping what I sow, abeg. I’ve never scammed any guy, neither can I go in and bring out what ANY guy has done for me before. I don’t cheat or double-date. I always stay loyal to gigolos, because no other name to use for them! 😭
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