Guy, don’t blame people that don’t want to marry or keep a woman in their home because what I experienced is bad! Okay, there is this guy. He is my man’s friend from childhood, but they both reconnected in 2021 and became closer. Fast forward to 2022, we went for their baby’s first birthday party, but ever since then, things changed in my relationship. Me and this guy’s woman became close—not that close sha, not friend-friend like that, but close because our men are both friends. She started with “Your man cheats, and my man is the one influencing him.” I told her the man I am with doesn’t cheat or carry women, but she still got to the stage where I started feeling insecure about my own child’s father, which I never did before. We both started having a lot of issues back to back, but her own man kept warning me to stay away from her. I never listened, thinking he was trying to block me from knowing the truth about his wife.
They came to our place to cool off for one month, and this lady made me pack out of my man’s house while I was pregnant! After I left, she went to tell my man that I made the decision myself, even trying to hook her sister up with him. 😂😂😂 God, I don suffer. Mumu me trusted her so much, thinking she was doing me a favor by opening my eyes to things. Me and my man settled things with the help of our parents, but I didn’t tell him that she was the one who told me to pack out because I didn’t want him to h8te her. I started seeing my own man differently, like a liar. We fought back to back, and from last year till this moment, I have not had peace of mind. My man also warned me to stay away from her, but I still didn’t listen. Later sha, I deleted her number and cleared everything about her so I wouldn’t talk to her again. A day before my man’s birthday, she messaged me again. Foolish me gave in and started opening up to her again.
Then she asked if I was going to gift my man something, and I said yes, stating what I wanted to give him. She replied, “You don’t have sense. Why would you give him a gift for someone that cheats on you and treats you that way?” I replied, “Why won’t I? He is my man and has done a lot for me that even my own family can’t do. He has stood by me when I was in a big mess. This gift is even too small for someone like that.” Immediately, I felt like my eyes cleared from her juju. I stood up to talk to my man, telling him that someone wanted to invoke negativity into me. He asked who, but I didn’t want to say because he would get angry. But I later opened up to him. Since then, I cut off everything with her. Now, the main story, guys… Omo, two days ago, at midnight, her man called my man, telling him that he caught his woman chatting with other men—not just one, ooo, different kinds of men! She even sent them nudes—confirmed 40-minute movie ooo.
Omo, we had to ask him to come over. Guyz, I saw film. I couldn’t talk. I felt so ashamed of myself for knowing this person. This lady went to meet babalawo to get juju to kee her daughter’s father ooo! We listened to the VN on her WhatsApp. I couldn’t close my mouth! This girl even carried my man’s name to the babalawo. Guyz, I don die. She was saying my man was the one teaching her own man against her. She told the man to give her a charm to keep her husband at home and kee him small small. She even wanted them to throw him arrow! I feel for this guy, chai! Even my own man’s name?! What did I do to her that she wants to turn me and my child into fatherless people? My baby is just five months old. Guyz, she even planned with the man she was sending pu$$y to so they could japa on December 5 (last year) with the guy’s gold—both the one he got for her and the one he got for their daughter. What was the guy’s offense? Because he cheated?
If you can’t take cheating, why not just break up instead of doing all these things to him and separating him from his own family and friends? This girl didn’t allow this guy to take care of his own family, only hers. Yesterday, I found out the guy paid her mother’s house rent and her siblings’ school fees! This guy would go to the supermarket to buy her skincare every week ooo. She would complain that the one she bought didn’t go well with her skin and buy another one. This man wouldn’t even complain! But now, she repays him with this kind of thing?! Guyz, I’m a woman, but stay away from d£m0nic women! And please, don’t be too accommodating like me, ooo. I be werey normal normal. Now, my own man feels like I planned with her to kee him—me, a Jesus girl! 😭 She said my man used juju on me, which is why I didn’t want to leave him and plan ev!| against him. 💔💔 She has run away now, but the guy collected everything he bought for her and his baby girl. 😞