Dear Rantz family, I have a boyfriend of over a year who is a yahoo boy and doesn’t plan on stopping. Recently, I started talking to my friend, who is also my schoolmate, and he’s in the U.S. Army. My boyfriend is a good person and loves me dearly, but the problem is that I recently started my MSc graduate application, and I told him about it—that it would be in the U.S. He wasn’t too happy about it, and I suggested we both do our process together as an escape route for him, even if he’s not too interested. But he declined, saying he doesn’t plan on going to the U.S. ever because of his job.
Nigeria isn’t helping, and I can’t finish my MSc and come back here. This schoolmate is confessing his love to me, saying he’s had his eyes on me ever since school, but I didn’t give him the chance to talk to me. Currently, I don’t know if I should accept him, even if it’s still long distance. I’m also feeling guilty about having to think about two men and the thought of leaving my boyfriend. I’ll feel guilty if I do. I’m still 22 years old. What do you guys suggest? Thank you.
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