It’s fucked up how this generation of women have this crazy idea that if a man don’t chase them up and down, that means he doesn’t love them. No, ma’am, I love you, I fucking do, with all my heart, but I won’t chase you just to prove how I feel about you. The last time I did, I lost myself, so I told myself it will never happen again, and I’d rather die than chase any girl. If you find someone better, then go be with him. Every time I am in a relationship with any girl, I always tell her—if she finds someone better than me or a better option than me, then go and be with him, and let the universe teach me a lesson for not being the best man I can be.
I can’t drag or fight a man over a woman. I take care of your bills, which I am always happy to do as a man, but if there is a man who is willing to put down more and he makes you happy, good. I want to see you happy, and I want the best for you, even if it costs me losing you—then so be it. And once you are in a relationship with me and you have s£x with someone else, then that’s the end of it. I can’t welcome you back into my life. I will miss you and love you, but my self-respect comes first.
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