You must be wondering, ‘What do I really want?’ But truthfully, I just want to know if he actually does exist, because I haven’t heard or seen one before. So there’s this particular guy I’m dating. Trust and believe me when I say this, he’s cool, gentle, awesome. I won’t sugarcoat, but he’s just almost everything a lady wants in a man. But this is where I’m curious. This guy doesn’t drink, smoke, party, has a short circle of friends (just 3 of them). He doesn’t really socialize, his neighbors barely know his name.
He doesn’t womanize, no Snapchat, has TikTok (to kill boredom, same as Instagram), no Facebook, a ghost on WhatsApp (doesn’t post, turns off read receipts, no profile pic). No profile picture on his Instagram and TikTok as well, barely even has followers. You might be wondering how I got to know all of these. I have 100% access to his phone and social medias. I went further to check his Instagram messages, but this guy only texts his mobile networks and banks whenever he is having issues with any of them.
Zero messages on TikTok, nothing special on his WhatsApp, even checked his archive, zero. Oh, I forgot to mention, this guy doesn’t even watch football, so apparently, he doesn’t play sportybet. I’ve once asked him why he doesn’t do any of these; he gave me perfect reasons for each and everything and said he’s just after the betterment and growth of himself, as too much of worldly things don’t really concern him. But omoo I’m not convinced enough.
I’ve only noticed he knows how to read between the lines when it comes to reading the room, emotions, and he overthinks a lot, which I really don’t consider a flaw. I’m not sure if anybody understands my rant. Could it be possible for such a guy without any flaws? Believe me when I say there was a time I frustrated this guy to the brink just because I was trying to find out if he has anger issues. But no, this guy just kept quiet for me to calm and told me he’s sorry, then prepared me a meal.
Oh, I didn’t mention he’s a good cook as well, clean both in and out. By the way, we’ve been dating for past a year and a few months now. He’s 23, while I’m 22, if you are wondering. You might be thinking, ‘Oh, it’s because he’s not rich yet or gotten to some certain height, once he gets there, I will begin to see the real him.’ But no, I don’t think this guy is a guy money will suddenly change. He’s not rich yet, but this guy is really trying. An average guy of class.
Do you think there’s a test I should put him on? I just want to know his flaws so I can know what I’m dealing with. Even pastors and those we look up to as men of God, they have their own flaws. I just hope it takes an understanding mindset to understand my rant here. Thank you.
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