I finally confirmed my suspicions. I’m not pained, not surprised, because I used to have this suspicion that he had a girlfriend. I even spoke about this particular girl, and he bluntly denied it. It’s been two freaking years, and our friendship or relationship—whatever he called it—has been off and on. Like, we talk for one month, and the rest of the months we’re on this particular issue. What was the issue that was always making us go back and forth? Well, it was my suspicions. I always complained about his sneaky attitude, but he always denied it, and I would just choose to ghost him.
The last time I saw him was in September last year, but we do talk on WhatsApp (we live in the same town). He posted this same girl because it was her birthday, and the caption was so short but direct and transparent. In short, you’d know she’s actually his girlfriend through the caption. He blocked me from viewing it, unknowingly to him that I have two WhatsApp accounts. My main WhatsApp account has all the settings enabled (read receipts, status view, display picture, last seen, and all of that are ON). But for my other WhatsApp account, everything is disabled—no display picture, no last seen, no read receipts, no status view.
In short, you’d think the WhatsApp isn’t active, but I am fvcking active there. I don’t post there, no name, no about; everything is blank. I viewed it and smiled. I was like, “Okayyyyyy, now my suspicions are true. I now have the proof I’ve been looking for.” I didn’t message him, and I didn’t tell him about it. I just acted like I didn’t see anything. I’ve deleted his number already. I feel there’s no need to tell him about what I saw because this guy literally made me feel like I was nagging for no reason. He turned me into a nagging person. Well, it is what it is.
I’ve been meaning to leave, but he made me feel like I was nagging for no reason. Most times, I questioned myself if I was even the problem for always accusing him. LOL. I HAVE FINALLY SEEN WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR, AND I DON’T NEED ADVICE BECAUSE I HAVE LEFT FOR GOOD. THANK YOU. ❤️
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