I am a single lady. My parents had issues and I was forced to move to their house, but the house has not been tiled nor well-furnished to their taste. It has been plastered because of snakes, and there is still bush around, with the floor being sandy. I couldn’t move with them because of my shop. I had to go and stay with my boyfriend at first, but later I rented an apartment with a friend of mine. Later, the girl and I had a fight, and she stabbed me on my left hand, so I had to move back to my boyfriend’s place.
As time goes on, we were together happily, though he’s still at his father’s house, he has his own apartment. I love him so much that I told him everything about me—my past when I was still into hookups, which I was influenced by friends. But he helped me change, and the love kept growing. He even influenced me positively in my fashion designing work. Later, he started misbehaving, chatting and calling girls in my presence, and saying they are just friends.
At times, I would be angry, yet I would be the one to talk to him because I can’t do without him. He doesn’t have much, he’s just an agent, and I am contented with whatever he gives me and the little I make in my business. At one point, I was so broke, and during that period, he brought a lady to the house and still denied he didn’t. I needed money for my shop rent and other important things, so I cheated on him with my ex because of money. I felt guilty and had to confess.
To cut the long story short, whenever we have a little misunderstanding, he doesn’t give me food money or transport to go to my shop. The issues kept going because I hate it when he calls girls or cheats on me. At one time, I thought it was because I gained weight, so I tried my best to get back in shape, but he still didn’t change. I told my parents and cousin about everything, and although they know we have issues, now I think I am fed up. I can’t cope anymore. This time around, he is dating a married lady with three children.
The money that he doesn’t give me, he gives to the lady, and he doesn’t care about me anymore. We always had fights about him getting his own apartment so we can move out of his father’s house, but he’s not ready to comply. He uses money to change his phone often and doesn’t seem to care. My cousin and mum are telling me to get my own apartment, but I don’t know what to do. I am confused, and I wish to be with him forever.
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