I’m a 26-year-old young lady, and I sincerely struggle with my physical appearance. I am slim, flat-chested, and have a flat butt. Despite trying various weight gain methods and enrolling in the gym for over two years, I’ve had no success due to my fast metabolism. Even when I manage to gain a little weight, I end up losing it again. I have never weighed more than 48 kg in my life. I’ve faced body-shaming throughout my life, and living in Nigeria without fitting into the desired beauty standards feels like hell. The men I’ve been with have always commented on my weight; although they show me love and care and say I’m beautiful and have a great personality,
they still want me to be thicker. Now that I’m single, I feel like no man will ever truly like me or consider me their type. They might settle for me because of my pretty face, intelligence, and good character, but I worry it’s not due to physical attraction. I believe physical attraction is very important in a relationship, and this has affected me mentally and emotionally. I’m looking for recommendations on how to love myself. Thank you.
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