I have come to realize and accept the fact that men are not loved unconditionally. We toil around the clock to make sure everyone is okay, but the moment we are unable to provide, the affection stops—from everybody, I mean! If a man has kids he has raised for 18 years diligently and becomes unable on the 19th year, for whatever circumstance, the love for him ends. Unconditional love cannot even come from family!
That’s why we hold our parents in high esteem—because only they will love us unconditionally, and if you’re fortunate, your siblings. That’s why these girls will never understand when a man picks family every time. It’s the hard truth of men! Heck, we don’t even have people to talk to! We’re just expected to suck it up and be “men.” Now imagine all this unfairness from life and the system. Now imagine being only “loved” for what we can provide.
That’s why we hustle round the clock to make sure we always have something to offer. Now that that’s established, we will struggle to make all this money, and one girl will come and demand 100% loyalty! Na there the problem dey always start! The only loyalty a man owes a woman is that status—know that “you’re my woman, and nobody will ever take your place.” But you cannot keep me to yourself! The only way a woman can use the word “cheat on” is when she’s giving unconditional love.
You cannot leech off a person and still want to keep the person to yourself! That’s just diabolical! I know I speak for 85% of men when I say this: the only way we can give 100% loyalty is if the love is unconditional. As far as you love me based on what I can provide, you get to share me with your type.
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