So, my now ex-babe and I started the talking stage in March last year. During that time, she was seeing other guys and lied about it. She even came to live in my estate in April and lied about it. I didn’t mind because I felt we were just getting to know each other, even though I figured out that she was lying within a week. I would ask her if she lived in the estate, and she would lie about it. Eventually, I confronted her with evidence, and she confessed, saying she didn’t want me to be choking her up just because we lived in the same estate. At first, admittedly, she said she didn’t want a relationship, which I was cool with. One day around May, she said she considered me her boyfriend and felt we were already in a relationship, only to find out a few days later that this same babe was sleeping with two other guys.
Occasionally, I would find out she went to her ex’s house, which she told me was important to her, or one shenanigan or the other, but I’d just attribute it to the fact that we were not official yet. After a while, I made it official, only to find out she was in her f*** buddy’s house that night after lying that she was home smoking. I still let it go. By June, things stabilized, and the relationship was going smoothly. Eventually, she started to catch feelings, and this same girl started complaining I was in contact with my friend, who was also my ex. We dated for one month three years ago and live in different cities. I reduced communication, and she still was not happy until I blocked her. Then I proceeded to block every girl who liked me and liked to chat me up because it made her feel uncomfortable. She still complained that it took so long for me to block the girl.
Shouldn’t she be glad I blocked them all without a fight? Meanwhile, she was still talking with guys and girls alike, sending girls nudes and guys asking for naughty pictures. After I blocked my exes, one of them found her account and followed her, and she accepted the follow, even though she uses a private account. She started complaining, and I wonder how that is my fault. I offered to talk to the ex, and she said no. She has since then been complaining about one thing or the other, saying how my ex keeps coming up when she is the one who keeps bringing her up. This same girl did all the above, but I loved her so much I overlooked it. Only for me to see a call from her favorite ex one day, and she claimed it was to “do her own back” because my ex keeps coming up. She blocked him after I complained. This girl accuses me of cheating every day, and it got tiring.
I look good, and girls like me and talk to me whenever we go out, and I turn them all down for her. She gets very expensive gifts almost every month. I got her an iPhone 16. We go on vacations and staycations, and she’s on a monthly allowance of over N200k. Last December, she got over N700k from me. I do not think money buys love, but I think it does show care to an extent. She gets love notes, and I spend two to five days a week with her, and she can come over to my house and read my chats at any point in time. Yet, she still does not trust me. I invited her to a party, and because girls were talking to me—which I did not entertain—she got mad, and we left the party. Then she accused me of sleeping with the host of the party. Recently, she has picked up an attitude, complaining about everything. She would ignore me and claim I ignored her.
She would accuse me of cheating or post half-naked pictures of herself on Snapchat, or post how she is looking for a scammer to teach her, and say it’s “cruise.” The final nail in the coffin was when we fought. The same ex she blocked and was f***ing when we first met, she went to unblock him because she thought I was cheating on her—which I wasn’t—and I presented evidence to her. I did have my faults, but I never cheated or lied. However, she cheated and lied, which I forgave, yet she keeps accusing me and frustrating me. Not for once did I get an appreciation post at the end of the year. Finally, I got tired and broke it off. I guess I want to know if I should have been more patient or if I was justified. She’ll read this too. Goodluck, miss B.
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