So, I’ve been chatting with this guy online (Facebook) for a while. He works in a different state, and I live in another state very far from his. Fast forward to June, he came to my state and asked to see me, which I agreed to because we had been chatting online for almost a year. We met for the first time, and it wasn’t bad. The second day, we met again, and he asked me out—lol, foolish me agreed—and we had sex immediately. I saw the first red flag, but I stup!dly ignored it. How can you be traveling with lubricant all the way from a different state? Lol. I ignored it, and we had s£x with the lubricant. We had s£x three times before he traveled back. That’s when Uncle stopped calling me. I didn’t call him either because I knew it would lead to nothing.
My so-called boyfriend would chat with me once a week or ignore me for weeks. I didn’t bother much because he was always posting on WhatsApp. Sometimes, I’d post something relatable just to get his attention, and he’d DM me for the moment or drop one call. It’s so annoying because he has never spent a dime on me, apart from the ₦2,000 he gave me for transport. I feel so used and pained. I just deleted his number because we’ve become mere status viewers. I feel like telling him I’m not interested anymore, but I’m just waiting for when he’ll visit and ask me to come see him. He showed concern during our chats, so I thought I should give him a chance.
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