I don’t really know how to feel about this: helping my boyfriend financially. I do see different posts everywhere insulting women who give men money, calling them different names. I borrowed my boyfriend money recently for his project, and sometimes he asks me for money, which I give as well because I’m always happy to do so. But, Omo, I saw a post where someone said men like using women by borrowing money from them without the intention of paying back. Talking about behavior, I know my boyfriend will return it. He is a very nice person, always making efforts for people.
There was a day I asked him for money, and he sent the only money left in his account to me. But the way people talk about being a fool when helping a man makes me feel stupid. I even saw a post where someone said men h8te women who are nice to them, that they like mean girls. Liking me or pleasing him is not my main concern. I just don’t want to end up being stupid, as they claim ladies who help men are.
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