I am actually a girl still living my life, but the person I’m dating wants to break me down in all ways. The funniest part is that I’ve had an abortion for this guy before. But whenever I express my feelings about something I notice in the relationship, this guy puts the blame on me. He is a narc!$$ist. I am fed up and tired of everything. Most times, I cry and cry and cry. I won’t say I regret meeting him or leaving my ex for him, but my ex actually valued me and always put me first every time. Like, guys are different from guys. I’m still battling with it.
I don’t want to leave him, but I’m actually looking for a way to let go of the relationship before it destroys me completely. Though I’m doing well on my own, if he doesn’t give me money, I’m fine, and I don’t ask him for anything unless I really need it. My advice for ladies out there is this: never love a guy more than he loves you. Never. If he’s not interested in the relationship anymore, I’ll advise you to let go on time before it’s too late. I just pray I find a better guy who will love me wholeheartedly and never disrespect me.
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