Now, the cheating I’m talking about isn’t him sleeping around with different girls or h00k-ups. But there’s this particular girl he’s always seeing. I have access to his phone, so I’m constantly reading their chats and seeing what’s going on between them, which he doesn’t even know. He even told the lady he’s getting married soon, but she still insists on seeing him, even though she has a man too. (He didn’t tell me—I read everything myself.) I also go to his notepad to read, because that’s where he keeps his secrets. But I can tell he really loves me.
If he didn’t, he wouldn’t be writing about how we met, how sweet everything was, adding my plans to his to-do list, and following through with them. He even writes about how many kids he wants with me and how he wants to take care of me. (Notepad dates don’t lie.) He started writing all this from the first month we started dating, and he still does. Yet this same guy is very protective of his phone, but I check it while he’s asleep. In my eyes, him being with this girl counts as cheating too.
Also Read Part 1: How Do I Make Him Stop Cheating?