Hi rantandtalkz family, please advise me, I’m confused. I’m 22 years and in my final year. I have a boyfriend I’ve been dating for a year plus now. He cheats a lot; there was even a time I did an ab0rtion. He just left me on my own without care—I did the whole process on my own, including the pain and the expenses. He begged me, and we sorted it out. On getting to his place the following month, I saw a lot of messages between him and different girls. He begged me and promised to change; tho he changed, not totally—he still chats with his ex and some girls too. We’ve been doing well together for some months now, but another problem now is he wants me to please his family every time. Most times, I do whatever they want me to do without complaining, but yet they badmouth me, complain about me not having a good character.
These are the same people I always go the extra mile for oo. I will even buy them different things every time, and they’ve never reciprocated my deeds; even he has never been of help to any of my family members. These few days, he has been fighting me back to back. His excuse is that his family and mum are complaining without me doing anything to them. 💔 It saddens my heart fr, and I don’t know what to do. I want to break up with him and move on with my life so I can have my own peace. Even though they offend me, he will still ask me to beg them. If I say I can’t, he will turn it into an issue. It now seems as if I’m dating his family. I’m tired, and I don’t want to hold on to rubbish.
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