Is it okay to end a relationship because your partner (female) didn’t post to celebrate you on your birthday, with the excuse of, “Must I showcase my boyfriend to the world?” E wa gba mi ke! I wasn’t after a dramatic caption—just “Happy birthday, darling” would’ve been enough for me. The fact is, she celebrated her birthday a few days before mine, and I posted her picture on my Snap, WhatsApp, and even tagged her on Instagram. I also sent her money to get a cake and bought her a gold chain.
So why does she feel she doesn’t have to reciprocate the same energy? It’s my birthday, for God’s sake, not just a random day. And all I got from her when I mentioned it was, “Do I want her to showcase her boyfriend to the world?” The fact that she didn’t even apologize turned me off completely. Anyway, that was the last day of our relationship. Let’s learn to appreciate our male partners, especially on their birthdays. Men have emotions too, and we love being appreciated by the people we love.
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