So, I started dating this guy for 5 years—no impact in my life. We were always arguing, plus he was too jealous. I couldn’t even see my friends without lying to him, saying I was going to see my cousin. His jealousy grew to the point where he in$ulted me at every opportunity he got. He even slut-shamed me. It got to the point where I had to pester my dad to give me my allowance just so I could give it to him. When the money came in a bit late, he insulted me so much, but I still gave it to him anyway because I loved him. Fast forward to when I was in school and needed money badly.
He promised to give me some, but at the last minute, he said they didn’t pay him. I ended up calling my dad for the money again. Two months later, during a conversation, he mentioned that he had received his salary that month and used it to pay contributions and help his sister. I didn’t even get angry, but what really pained me was that when I started working, I constantly paid his bills. I even paid for the laborers who worked on the house (a house I never even saw).
He had the nerve to tell my sister that he bought the house in my name—stupid boy! Even when he was pursuing his visa, I still supported him financially, and he had the audacity to warn me that when he got there, he would take care of his family first before coming back for me. I agreed at the time, but thank God I broke up with him. I feel so free from that bondage.
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