I greet the relationship gurus, the love birds, the singlets, and everyone in the house. I’m 26, and I have a lady I was planning to settle with. She’s 25, and we are both graduates. We have been together for 11 months now, and everything was working well with us. So, there was a time around June, she told me she was going to her friend’s place to spend a couple of weeks. The friend lives in a different state, and I agreed because I knew and met her through her friend, who was my neighbor back then. Unknowingly to me, this f00lish girl was lying and went to a man’s house and spent a whopping 2 weeks there.
And f00l me thought she was at her friend’s place and even sent her money and everything she needed. Guys, this girl looked innocent, ehn! I discovered everything a month after it happened and realized she didn’t go to her friend’s house because I read all her chats with that same friend she lied about, and I also read her chat with the man she went to meet. When she came to my place, this really broke me so much and saddened me because I really loved her, and she was the only one I had. I didn’t react and didn’t let her know I found out.
I continued doing my duty as her boyfriend because I didn’t want to lose her. I kept everything to myself without letting any of my friends know, thinking I would forget about her mistakes and heal with time. But she already broke the trust. What hurts me the most is that I already told my family about her and let them know I would be bringing her home by December; my mom and siblings were really happy. But unfortunately, I am broken right now. 💔💔 In conclusion, I was chatting with her yesterday, and she was talking about trust.
I don’t know what triggered me, but all of a sudden, I wrote to her, “If you want me to trust you, then why did you have to lie about going to your friend’s place and eventually end up at a man’s house?” She was shocked and wanted to act smart by denying it and immediately changed the whole story, trying to emotionally blackmail me for accusing her of such. I smiled and repeated the question, and wrote to her again,
“I thought you were different from others, and I was ready to make you my woman, but you broke the trust and made me have doubts.” At this point, she still wanted to deny it, so I narrated everything to her, and it got to a point where she couldn’t deny it anymore. The next thing she said was, “I am sorry, I realize my mistake; let’s just forget and fix this.” 😥 I repeated the question again and told her I wouldn’t stop asking until she provided an answer to what I was asking. If she refused, I was ready to end this relationship and block her.
At this point, she was already calling my number, and I kept declining. Then she texted me, saying she was ready to answer and tell me everything. I said, “Okay, go ahead!” The next thing she said was, “Truly, I slept in his house because I felt safe, and I knew he wouldn’t do anything.” I smiled, called her by her name, and wrote back, “Damilola, na God go help me pun!$h you.” She begged and asked me to forgive her for breaking the trust.
While writing this, she was crying profusely, telling me we could fix this. She claimed nothing happened between them, meaning the guy didn’t touch her throughout her stay. Hahaha! Guys in the house, is that even possible? When she said that, I laughed and told her it was impossible because I could never love her the same. After I said that, I blocked her everywhere—blocked her friend and every one of her relatives related to me. She has been calling and texting me with different numbers since yesterday, but I am not going to forgive or go back to her. Ladies, why do you do this to a guy that loves you wholeheartedly and is ready to do everything for you? Why hurt an innocent guy with pure intentions? Why? Just why? I’m sorry my rant took long and took y’all time. So, I just need your opinions now. Is it advisable to forgive her and go back to her?
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