I’m 25, got my medical license a few months ago, and I’m processing my internship. I don’t even know where to start, please read because I want to hear all your comments. I met a girl during my final year; we started dating, but I was facing a lot of challenges—final year medical college stress and the finances to fund it. I’m a hustling guy because I need to pay my school bills and also support my family. Because of this, I wasn’t able to support my girlfriend as much as I wanted to. Things got worse during the final professional exam, and I was becoming depressed. She didn’t understand the situation, even when I tried to explain it to her.
She thought I didn’t love her. I finally got inducted this year, went back to her, apologized, and she expressed how hurt she was. I love her, and we started again, but the thing is, I’m still not financially stable. I took losses on my trades, coupled with my mom’s health issues, and I’m trying to relocate to a better place. I still cannot cater to her needs fully, but I try. She talks to other guys and said she won’t stop because she doesn’t want to “put all her eggs in one basket.” I’ve tried to make her see reasons, but she kept doing this seriously. She posts a lot about being single.
She’s a good girl, and I have plans to spend the rest of my life with her, but she’s not loyal. She has a male best friend saved in her phone with a heart emoji, and they live in the same lodge. She says nothing is going on between them, and she’s been at her family’s house since we got back together—I haven’t seen her in person. Her family is well-off, but I’m the kind of man who doesn’t expect anything from my woman except her love. Currently, I’m strapped for cash, and she needed money for some things to get back to school. I really wanted to help, but there was no way. My mom is staying at my house because she’s sick, and I’m finding it difficult to keep food on the table.
Now, she’s gone cold, and we don’t talk like we used to. She told me to stop sending her morning and night messages because it’s a waste of time since she doesn’t read them. She said a transfer slip would be better and that I should use the time to make money instead of writing messages. I’m a professional, and I hustle in different ways. I know I won’t be broke for long, but I went back to her hoping she could be patient for at least six months, but it’s only been two. Is there no girl who can stay with a hustling guy and build with him anymore? This is crazy.
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