My boyfriend is broke at the moment, and his business has failed as well. He’s always sad these days. Financially, I’m okay to some extent, and I always try to help when I can, but I don’t overextend myself. He broke up with me about seven months ago (it was my fault, not because of cheating, but because I didn’t set boundaries with my male friends—though that’s unrelated). I knew he had money then when we broke up, and it wasn’t a small amount. We got back together, but I realized he is now broke.
Barely a month after we reconciled, he started ghosting me. It usually lasts 3 to 4 days, and I have to text him first. I thought he might be busy trying to improve his life, so I didn’t want to disturb him. I felt like he was going through tough times and didn’t want to leave him alone without checking up on him. So whenever he ghosted me, I would reach out after 3 or 4 days. The last time he ghosted me, I complained that I didn’t like how he was treating me. He started laughing and said, “Because I didn’t follow you, you’re saying I ghosted you?”
He even added a laughing emoji. I didn’t say much, and we talked that day, but now it’s almost been a week with no messages or calls from him. I’m tired of always reaching out first. It makes me feel desperate, and I feel like a fool. The thought of it annoys me, and I’m disgusted with myself. Today, I decided to delete his contact and all his social media accounts, just in case he never texts back again. I’m going to start my healing process.
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