So ladies, this is a warning to you all. We are in the Ember months, and the guys from abroad have started coming back. Be warned— they will sleep with you and ignore you when they go back. Most will return in December, and they’ve already started chatting you up and replying to your WhatsApp messages. Before you know it, in November, they’ll tell you they’re coming to Nigeria in December. So this is my own story. I’ve known this guy for over 3 years, and we can’t get married because of religious differences.
But whenever he comes back, we always plan it and spend some time together. However, this year, we had an issue and hadn’t spoken— only for him to chat me yesterday, saying he was in Lagos and wanted me to come over because he missed hugging me so much. I was so irritated and angry. I made him understand that I wasn’t a hookup girl he’d call whenever he was in Nigeria.
He apologized, and I didn’t go. After two days, I thought, “Let me chat him and see if I can get some cash from him.” Men and brethren, this mumu sent me N25k! 🤣🤣🤣 I wanted to faint. In my mind, I was like, “For what?” Even when we used to talk last year, he didn’t send that much. I didn’t even reply to him again. Now I know two guys coming back in October and December. They’ve already told me they’re coming and have booked their flights.
What makes me laugh is that they don’t even call me, and I don’t call them either. Whenever I need something and ask for help, they won’t oblige me. I’m not even angry because I don’t rate them. I haven’t even had sex with these last two, but everything makes me laugh. You won’t help me when I’m in need, but you want to sleep with me when you come back. So, ladies, they don’t love you. You’re not special.
If you like, go and have sex with them, but when they go back, they’ll ignore you. I’ve been celibate for 4 months now, and I’ve been at peace with myself. I don’t even ask any guy for money anymore. But anytime a guy tries to be silly about seeing me, I just bill them to chase them away. And of course, it works. Ladies, get your own money, and you’ll have authority and peace.
Imagine if I didn’t have a business— I would have gone to see that mumu, and I know he wouldn’t give more than N50k, and I’d end up h8ting myself. I’m not judging ooo. If you want to sleep with them, feel free, just do it at your own will. Don’t think they’re chatting with you because they love you— they don’t. I’ll make sure I do what will h#rt them very well. I just had to rant.
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