First, I have to say that I love my friends—all my friends that smoke. I really don’t have a problem with people that smoke at all; don’t get me wrong. You know that saying that goes, “I like it for you but not for someone who’s mine.” I’ve known my man for some time now. We’re very, very cool, but I have a problem with the fact that he smokes. Not just smoking, he’s addicted (note, I have friends that smoke, and I love them). He can smoke without thinking of what to eat next. Like, how person go smoke finish, don high, before you go think of wetin to chop? Okay, that’s not the problem.
The case is, I never knew he was addicted to it. I saw him smoking just once and thought it was for fun, not an everyday thing before I said yes. Now, I can’t deal. I can’t deal. I love him so much, but I can’t deal. I can’t stop him from smoking if he doesn’t want to stop. I am not dating for fun no more; I want a forever, but I can’t cope with my man doing this. I want to tell him I can’t continue with the relationship because it’s irr!tating me already, but that will be me h#rting him. And I can’t manage the smoking. What’s the best way to go about this? Stoners, I love you all, but not my man. 😩😩
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