As a young Nigerian woman who doesn’t come from a reasonable family with a deadbeat dad, I have hustled in this life. I was once a teacher/nanny in a small school. I was also a customer service agent, supervisor, waitress, and usher. Even with all these, most times I couldn’t even afford pads for my period, even tissue paper; I could literally not afford anything. I was on loans because of my education, and even feeding was a problem. Even the men I sought help from would want to get down with me first. I am a virgin, never had sex in my life. Stripping was a kind of way out of the extreme poverty, even with my education and well-spoken nature, extremely beautiful face, and over a hundred job applications. Life was hard.
I just had to make up my mind to go into stripping; it took months and months, but I just had to do it before hunger killed me. Fast forward to now, even in stripping, I do make money, but not as much as the chain smokers because those girls take heavy drugs for “vibes on vibes” that pull in the money. I am not a smoker or a drinker. In a strip club, you also have to fuck; if not, your money won’t come up. It’s crazy. For someone like me who is still a virgin, even though I have been dancing for a year (even if it’s unbelievable), I have had numerous proposals from men to fuck, but I don’t answer. In the strip club, you’d have to fuck with the regular ballers; if not, when they come around, you won’t cash out from them (you’d have to, to sustain your money from them at the club).
Big nyash dey sell; that’s why BBL is everywhere. Anal sex too is a thing, I discovered here. I am a little bit quiet and reserved, except when I am on stage (pole). Even if I have been able to save almost a million in five months aside from buying clothes, transporting myself to school (I have recently graduated), and all other stuff, I plan to move from where I am staying to a better apartment. This stripping has been a roller coaster. I always pray that God will give me a man who will do more for me than I can do for myself. I will definitely leave dancing because this is not the life I envisioned for myself. I want a family with children and financial stability. I just pray to God for divine intervention.
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