Life is really a big mess. I was born in 2005, but I look older than my age, so I fake my age sometimes. I would say I’m 23/27. I’m into hookups, but I have two guys I’m dating. One is staying in Ogun State, and the other guy is in Lagos. The Lagos guy has a lady in his house because she gave birth for him. We’ve been dating for two years now, and he never does anything really special for me. Ever since we’ve been dating, the most he sent is N16k, but in total, it would be around N200k. Recently, we had a discussion, and he said he wants me to get pregnant for him. I told him he should rent an apartment for me first, and he’s on it.
But I’m still thinking of not rushing into the relationship for now because I don’t want my kids to have different surnames. I look older than my age—who will keep me in their house? I promised myself a big wedding party, but this guy doesn’t want something like that. Even the person he kept in his house, he didn’t put a ring on her hand. The other guy is still young, and I think he still wants to explore. Please, I need your advice. Note: I didn’t meet these people through hookups. I will be in the comment section.
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