I have something bothering me for a while now. I met my boyfriend 3 months ago. We have been talking consistently since then. The first time we started talking, he told me his plans—he wants to marry me, he said he’s coming back next year to get married. He’s out of the country at the moment. We’ve been having one particular issue even when we started newly: he’s always demanding my nudes, especially showing him my boobs whenever we are on a video call. It has been causing issues in the relationship because I always decline, and most times I talk to him rudely because of this particular issue. I have warned him several times not to bring up such a topic again, yet he kept on doing it.
His excuse was that I’m not always free with him and trust needs to be tested, and I kept telling him that he will definitely see every part of my body if we eventually get married. So why the rush? The other day, we were having a discussion concerning this particular issue, and I asked him what if after seeing my body he finds out my boobs were sagged. He told me that even if we were already married, he would send me back to my father’s house if he eventually finds out. Right now, we are not talking to each other. Please, what should I do?
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