My friend has been dating this guy before we met, so she introduced me to the guy when our relationship got deeper. Anytime they have issues, I would be the one to help them sort things out, and I became close to the guy too, but not too close. They broke up later on after my friend went to school, and both of them went their separate ways, but they still have each other’s contact. Fast forward to early this year; I posted a video, and the guy messaged me and started saying he likes me and all sorts.
I told my friend about it, and she said I should accept just to collect money from him. So, I did as she said. I dated the guy for 3 months, and he was deeply in love with me. But while dating him, I noticed my friend changed towards me. She didn’t talk to me like before. When she came back from school, she did not let me know; she avoided me totally, and it was obvious. So I asked her, and she said it was not because of the guy she’s acting like that, that we are fine. I felt guilty with the way she acted towards me, so I broke up with that guy.
Despite breaking up with the guy, my friend still avoided me, and it looks as if I betrayed her. The greatest mistake I ever made was accepting what she said by dating the guy because this guy here is just a woman in a man’s form…Ewww. I have been trying to just let it out of my mind that I dated the guy, but I still remember sometimes, and I’m ashamed of myself. I don’t know how to go about it with my friend, because to me, it looks as if I betrayed her.
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