My husband stays outside the country. He left a week after our wedding, and it’s been 1 year and some months now, and it will definitely be 2 years before we meet again. He sends me money but does not care about my emotional needs. This man literally doesn’t ask me about my s£xual needs; he doesn’t even talk about “us”. He has this kind of narcissistic attitude, like he doesn’t care if we don’t talk for days. I literally cry myself to bed most times. Anytime I complain, it makes me start seeing myself as a nagging wife.
Worse was when we had our first wedding anniversary. After sending him several love messages, he replied with “HWA to you.” I was so heartbroken by his response. I didn’t see all of these flags because our relationship was mostly long-distance before we got married. Lately, my s£xual drive has been on the high side. I talked to my husband about it, and he said there’s nothing he can do about it except for me to endure or do whatever I want. Fast forward, I started finding solace in one of my old male friends.
Though we don’t meet, he calls me, shows that he cares, listens to me, and does everything a man should do for a friend. My attention is drifting to him, and now he wants to come and visit me. I’m scared we might have sex. We have already fixed a date to meet. I have never cheated on my man before, and I’m scared this would have repercussions. My conscience won’t let me be if I do it, but my flesh and body want a man’s touch. Can you please drop a word of advice for me?
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