I just want to rant about my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for 3 years and some months now. We’ve broken up twice and come back together. I love him so much, and I know he loves me too. Now we’re planning on getting married and having a child. Note: I was a single mother of 1 before I met him, and he said he did not have an issue with that. He cares for my daughter and loves her. We broke up last year, and we got back together this year, and since we got back, I have been with him in his house. But my problem is my boyfriend is always threatening me about cheating on me with another girl if I don’t do what he wants.
Like, I cook for this guy and do his washing and other stuff for him. I mean, I enjoy doing all this stuff for him, but any day I decide to rest, maybe from cooking or washing, he’s always angry and threatening me that he will not marry me. Like he thinks he’s doing me a favour by marrying me. Anytime he says all these words to me, it always hurts me, and I always feel bad. I think I don’t deserve all these things. I have tried my best to show him love, but it is just not working. He’s always saying things that will hurt me and make me feel bad. We have sex every day. I don’t like sex, but he does, and I am really trying my best to give him every day (sometimes twice daily).
Whenever I tell him that I am tired and that I can’t do it, he will tell me that he will find another girl that will do it. Like, please, my people, what do you think I can do? I love this guy so much, but he’s just treating me anyhow he likes. He makes me cry every time, and I still can’t stop loving him. Please help me. (He smokes too, like Colorado, and takes pills, but he said he would stop it because of me because I think that is the reason why he’s always behaving like that.
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