So I met a guy here on Instagram. We’ve been talking for almost 2 months now. He’s Igbo, and he’s been quite the opposite of my ex. He listens to me, gives me attention, apologizes genuinely when needed, wants to talk to me every single time, and he never gets tired. He wants to come to the southwest later this month to ask me out officially because he said he likes me a lot but doesn’t want to ask me out over the phone. Now the thing is, I have a daughter (I was raped while I was in school), but I haven’t told him yet. I’m not hiding my daughter, but I just choose to tell who I want to and who deserves to know, and I do that at the right time. She doesn’t stay with me, though, and you can never know if I don’t tell you. Do you think I should tell him before he comes? Or should I wait till he gets here?
