I just want to complain because I don’t know what to do. My husband loves drinking; he drinks every day, and I hate him whenever he drinks. He irritates me because of the way he behaves, but he doesn’t vomit. Now, another thing he is doing that I hate so much is being stingy with himself. He would make sure the fuel in his car runs out on the road before he gets more. It is very irritating. It’s not like he doesn’t have the money; at times, fuel will cost N800, and in some places, it’s N700 or N600, but because of a N100 difference, he won’t buy the fuel, something he won’t buy more than N3000, highest N5k.
He would have millions in his account but prefer to beg his friends for N2k, N3k, or N1k. Very irritating, always begging people for money. To give me, his wife, N3k is hard, even if I don’t need his money. My parents are okay; they opened a big store for me, and people would think he was the one who sponsored it, which is a big lie. I won’t lie; I saw all the red flags while dating him. He doesn’t buy anything for me, but all in the name of “no better man outside” and with my experience from my past relationship, I thought as long as he’s not beating me, it’s something I could change.
He has his good sides, but those two attitudes — eww — they are very irritating. How can I stop him? I know he listens to me whenever I get angry about these things. He does try to caution himself; now he hides the alcohol from me, but I know when he’s drunk. I want to stop him; how can I stop him? Yeah, I don’t need a man’s money to survive, but still, he has to stop those habits and start taking care of me by buying me things, even if it’s N1k, I would appreciate it. And we are married! Should I never have married him? I’m tired already. What can I do to stop him? Nobody should insult me.
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