I’ve been with a man for three-plus years now, since I was 18, and I absolutely love him, but I’ve been observing some things that are stressing me out so much. First, he’s still unemployed. He was doing fr@ud (I had no idea until the second year, and apparently since we got together, it hasn’t paid him, so I’m happy we did away with that), but now he’s “trying out” crypto, and it’s been so many losses for him. So, he’s been in a financial slump for two years now, but we’ve gotten by fine (love covers all things). Now, sha, he borrows money from me occasionally, and he doesn’t really pay me back per se, just the N5k, N10k, or N20k here and there.
He didn’t get me anything for my birthday this year because things are really tight for him and all. Even the outing we had, I had to lend him some money for it (wow, saying these things out loud really paints the picture 💀). Also, he doesn’t really tend to my emotional needs, but this one I’m tired of talking about, and I just decided to accept it. He wants to marry me, though, and we love each other. He’s also kind to me and gives me room to grow (even if I feel like I might end up having to stunt my growth a little so I don’t outgrow him).
We don’t quarrel, he’s never assaulted or in$ulted me (we seem to get along very well), and he’s also very cool. I don’t know, mehn, am I being foolish, or does love truly cover all things? I didn’t really bother so much about money because I know that when things get better for him, he’ll definitely still factor me in, so there’s no need to really consider it. Please advise me; I might just be rather foolish too.
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